Nurture your mind with great thoughts for you will never go any higher than you think.
~Benjamin Disraeli
You talk the language you have picked up on your way in life. Your eyes are blinded by the failures people around you have kept on implanting in your mind that there is nothing you can do about anything in life.
Know one thing, any software can be reprogrammed to begin to do something else. Software is so soft to be stretched in any direction. Therefore, your mind can be fed with fresh empowering ideas. You can take on a fresh agenda for your life and begin to reprogram your mind for success. Give your mind a success story of you to feed on and recite it every day and you will be amazed at how you begin to do and act like the success you are. Some wise guy said "Aim for the top, it is the bottom that is overcrowded" how true this is. When people begin to step on each other's toes, it means they are standing in an overcrowded area. Have you not noticed how poor people spend their time gossiping on how the rich are alleged to be using crude methods to get rich? When people fail to understand anything, they begin to call it names.
What is the problem? The mind is the problem. If you train a child in the ways of success, they will not turn from it. When people see begging as being normal, it's because they have been begging for too long
Your mind is your secret weapon for your success. It makes the difference between the rich and the poor. It represents the Screen of your computer on which you can craft the beautiful life you desire for yourself or its the same place on which you can forge weapons to destroy your own life. It is fashionable for anyone to say they are waiting on God. But believe me God is also waiting on you because you are the one holding the required instruments for your success, brain, intellect, imagination, body, eyes, legs and above all the desire.
To your success