Thursday, December 10, 2020

You cannot pour from an empty cup

 “To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness.” “Don't waste your energy trying to change opinions … Do your thing, and don't care if they like it.” “Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we'll ever do.” Evan Hartzenberg

You try so hard to play the religious story of trying to love others more when you actually don't even love yourself in any way. You spend your time trying to make yourself to fit others' descriptions of perfection every day but you always end up with a photocopy you don't like. Hence, you try again the following day and in the process, you end up looking like a clown. 

Do you know the problem you have been trying to solve? It's called a lack of self-love. Oh, you need is to Love Yourself. Every day you need to shower yourself with lots of love. Loving everything about yourself and stopping to listen to other people's opinions of you. You will never satisfy people's curiosity because they will never be you and they will never walk in your shoes. You hate your face, you don't even like the color of your skin and even the size of your head and you wonder why other people keep talking ill of how you look. Stop abusing yourself and others will stop. be comfortable in your own skin and enjoy life effortlessly

If you don't love yourself, what love can you sincerely give to other people? You cannot pour from an empty cup. Fill your cup full of love and you will have enough to give to other people.

Be wise and rise above life's challenges   

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