Golden Tips on Getting What You want

“Mistakes are painful when they happen, but years later a collection of mistakes is what is called experience.”
~ Denis Waitley

People die not because of lack of faith but because of lack of knowledge. Faith without knowledge can be referred to as energy misfired. Forget the past mistakes and look forward to a getting a fresh start to get what you want in life with the following tips:

Tip 1) Be Mindful. Mindfulness refers to focusing on the present moment and paying attention to what you’re doing at that moment.  

Too often we put ourselves on autopilot and let our minds run wild with what we just did, and what we’re about to do. From picking up the kids to mowing the lawn, we tend to live our lives in the past and future, without ever just focusing on the present. Being mindful allows you to begin to focus your attention in a very specific way that calms your mind, priming it to accept what the universe has to share with you.
  
Tip 2) Practice Gratitude. I know you’ve heard me talk about this before but Gratitude truly is an amazingly powerful force if you know how to harness it. 

I suggest taking a couple of minutes when you wake up before you really open your eyes and jump out of bed to mentally think about all the things you’re grateful for in your life at that moment. 1Th 5:18  In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.


Pick 3 to 5 things that you can focus on intently and just bask in the joy of what those things bring to you.

At the end of the day just before you close your eyes, find moments from your day that you can have gratitude for.

This actually does some remarkable things. It not only lessens stress, but also opens your mind to inviting positive change into your life by focusing on what is already good!

Tip 3) Visualize It! If you practice the first two of these tips, you’ll be setting your mind up to let the real power of this final tip come into your life. 

Visualizing yourself already having the things you desire… the success, the wealth, the health… and truly feeling it already being yours will tell the universe that you’re ready for it to become a reality in your life. Jesus Christ also made this point clear in Mar 11:24  "Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them"

These three tips, when used together, will also create a powerful synergy in your mind and create a positive environment for allowing (and even asking) for the things that you desire, to manifest into your reality.

Practice them every day and you’ll be amazed to see the positive changes coming at you from every direction!

 ( Credits: Natalie ~ Mind Movies)

Three PEOPLE You NEED to MEET in LIFE

A Life without a Coach might produce a Reproach

No man is an Island so goes the saying. A baby needs a Mother for nurturing, a toddler needs a parent to help through the first walking steps. We all need to go to some school to learn something to get us started in the life of learning

We all need people to shape us into a certain personality. Everybody you meet in life behaves or speaks in a certain way peculiar to a community, tribe or race and they will be identified as such maybe by their accent or mannerism. The bottom line is that no one can ever hope to become anything without a coach or a raw model. What the coach or raw model modes us into is another matter. for most of us, our raw models are our parents. We imitate and try as much as possible to be what our parents represented. The tragedy only comes if our parents never achieved anything or probably were drunkards.

We are shaped by the relationships that we keep. Some are healthy relationships and some are not. But if you are somebody pregnant with a  dream and you are passionate about it then there are three people you need to meet in life:

1.  We all need a  burden sharer; If you have a dream, only another person with a dream or even bigger dream will understand your situation. You will need dreamers who are not afraid around you to encourage and empower you with the resolve to continue. The Bible has story of Mary the mother of Jesus Christ who at the time was pronounced pregnant by the Holy Ghost. She needed someone to share this with. Therefore, she went to see Elizabeth her cousin, who was also pregnant with John the baptist.
2. We all need a dream maker; A dream maker is someone who puts form to your dream, they guide you on the path to your dream. A dream maker will usually make you see the dream happen in some form. They make you own the results of your dream even before it happens. The Bible tells a story of King Soul before he became a king. He went to look for his father's lost goats. The story gives Soul's encounter with Samuel the prophet who ended up making him the first King of Israel. Soul needed to meet a dream maker for him to become a King. He had gone out as goat hunter but came back with a Kingdom. You need to meet people who will give you the keys to the fulfillment of your dreams
3. We need a Way maker; John the baptist was Jesus's way maker. Somebody who was willing to step aside and let Jesus play his role. You need people who will give you space to work and get your dream operational. Way makers can be someone who is willing to finance your dream or provide the necessary skills required by your dream

Life will line up burden sharers, dream makers and way makers if you have a dream and you are passionate about taking every necessary steps to achieving it. Many times we have dreams and we do not know what to do with what we are seeing. To every dream there is a sacrifice in terms of time, money and effort both physical and mental. Look around you, there may be someone who is achieving big things, ask them for a guidance. There are many life coaches around, ask for help. You dream only requires a little ignition for you to run with it. Don't waste time on losers.

Time to stop procrastination, putting things off for a later time. The only time is now. The obstacles you seem to be seeing in front of your dream are the steps you require to your destination.  

To your success