In the Shadows

"I decided long ago never to walk in anyone's shadow; if I fail, or if I succeed at least I did as I believe" ~Whitney Houston

What if everything we thought we knew to be true was all wrongs? We pray, we go to church every Sunday and we fast, yet we wallow in poverty and when lucky we live paycheck to paycheck. Our Land is full of mineral wealth yet our currencies are worthless. Our countries are in debt yet our land is host to vast mineral wealth worth a thousand times more than the debt we owe to other nations. We are demeaned every day for the poverty that seems to be in abundance in our communities yet we are sitting on Gold, Copper, Cobalt the list is endless. 

We think we know God and talk to him every day yet he seems not to reveal nothing to us on getting our land out of poverty, how ironic! Yet we seem to know more about demons and their names plus how to get rid of them. We are taught about Angels except they should be white in color yet if you dream of a black angel it must be a demon sent from the devil's bedroom to haunt you.

In the Shadows of those who control the world, we have been hypnotized to slumber and sleepwalk through life with the illusion that we are educated and civilized. We hold the holy books and declare we are free. Free to do what? and freedom from what?

Have we been asleep too long that we have even mistaken the shadow for light? We have been holding the holy books with content already interpreted for us to suit the objective of an enslaving cartel! Hence we believe we know the truth and walk in that truth. The system has even been designed for us to be educated to retire and not to make a life

We have been made to think and believe we walk in the light but have never stopped to think and realize that we have been living in the shadows or else why are we still impoverished even after getting more than educated including getting born again in the chosen religion. 

OH! we have been given the ultimate prize, HEAVEN!. Well nobody goes to heaven alive. Whatever you want to achieve and enjoy can only be done right here on earth in your earthly body with the God-given potential locked inside of you waiting to make you the King or the Queen you were meant to be

THINK ABOUT IT

 

'THERE IS NO SAFE PLACE IN LIFE BECAUSE NO ONE GETS OUT OF LIFE ALIVE'

 “The primary difference between rich people and poor people is how they handle fear”. ... Robert Kiyosaki

"Fear = False Evidence Appearing Real”

No matter what we try to think is our major hindrance, fear will always be one of the underlying snake creeping silently in our everyday decisions and actions that we try in order to pull ourselves up. It’s a monster we have to face because we have developed it for far too long a time since childhood. But it’s time we showed fear the door out of our lives. Probably the windows too!

Let me share with you tips I learnt from an article by Gin Ng Khin Wee on 10 steps you can take to deal with fear;

Fear of failing, of course everyone does fear no matter how successful they are. One key thing about how we should handle fear is using it as fuel to motivate us and pushing us even further to learn more. Once we know more about issues triggering fear, it's very natural that we will start to have less fear and self-doubt as we face life in general. Self-doubt and fear interfere with our ability to achieve or set goals. Self-doubt and fear are the voices in our head telling us, "You'll never succeed, so why try?" and "who do you think you are?" Self-doubt and fear are also what make us listen to those voices and decide to give up before we even get started.

While many people experience self-doubt and fear at some point in their lives, they take action anyway. Others remain stuck or are confident in only one area of their life, such as work. They are too afraid to try new things like going back to school, entering new relationships or learning new skills. When we let self-doubt and fear rule our lives, we miss opportunities. We predict and believe that nothing good will happen to us, so we don't try anything new, and refuse to take even low-level risks. This leads us to discount people or situations that could help us reach our goals. While self-doubt and fear can come in different forms and from different sources, we can learn to break through them.

• Make a list of your fears. Only by admitting that they exist can you seek solutions. Complaining about them will not make the fears go away. It only re-enforces the presence of fear

• Write down how these fears affect your life. You can’t start a business venture or you can’t even apply for a job because of fear

• Become aware of the voices in your head and write down those negative messages. This gives you an opportunity to change the message. If the voices are saying you are ugly, then you can build yourself by telling yourself that you are beautiful and there is none like you

• Start building a support system of friends and eliminate people from your life who foster feelings of negativity. Some people are just too anointed to be negative such that when they come into your presence, all your talk just goes negative by default. Begin to stay away from such. You will suffer no losses than you already are

• Join a support group of people who have similar issues. A group that has a resolve to rid themselves of the fears, not the ones who want to celebrate the fears

• Change each negative message to one that is affirming and constructive. Keep affirming to yourself every day until the words become part of you and your vocabulary

• Read books that help you feel better about yourself. Stay away from unnecessarily sad stories that do not have the good gaining the final victory

• Be aware of your past, and be willing to let go of it. Remember there is nothing you can do about the past which is already gone but you can certainly do something about today which is within your control

• List your goals and the actions you need to achieve them. Don’t start worrying about ‘How’ the goals will be achieved but concentrate on ‘What’ you want to achieve and start the journey. You will soon realize that everything is falling in place

• Take one of those actions every day. Each time you do something that brings you closer to achieving your goals you will feel better about yourself. When fears and self-doubts come back, and they still do, I break through them by using the tools and skills I've learned and now teach. They work

 Don't enjoy being afraid just because you think not taking actions in life keeps you safe from the consequences of failure or ridicule from others. Just know one thing;

'THERE IS NO SAFE PLACE IN LIFE BECAUSE NO ONE GETS OUT OF LIFE ALIVE'

Rather than wasting time with fear, you better start dancing with life at its maximum or else life will pass you by and find another dancing partner. And you will always be in the stands of life as a spectator of the change instead of being the change

Rather than wasting time with fear, you better start dancing with life at its maximum or else life will pass you by and find another dancing partner. And you will always be in the stands of life as a spectator of the change instead of being the change

Worry No More

 

Erma Bombeck once wrote, “Worry is like a rocking chair: it gives you something to do but never gets you anywhere.” Why should anyone spend valuable time on issues that are beyond one's control? And why worry over spilled milk? You may have lost a job or lost the love of your life! It could be anything but it's time one made up their mind to move forward and start afresh. Therefore, how can one stop worrying?

In this article, I will highlight 4 ways of dealing with worry I found interesting out of the 6 ways illustrated by Amy Morin, in an article written in Psychology Today titled” 6 Ways to Stop Worrying About Things You Can’t Change.

Determine What You Can Control; it is mare foolishness to think you can make the sun never go down and allow nighttime to come. Whether one likes it or not Day and Night will never cease. Generally in life, we may not be in control of what happens to us but we are in control of how we react to what happens to us

Focus on your influence; it is usually to wise to poke into other people’s business in which you have no authority to change or influence anything. One may be accused of trespassing. Let us focus on areas where we have 100% influence to make changes

Identify your fears; everyone is afraid of something like there are many people afraid of death. Well talking about death, it’s a well-known fact that no one will ever get out of life alive! It’s that simple. Some have the fear of failure. Identify your fears and accept them. Accepting your fears is the first step to begin to do something about them in order to move forward in life.

Develop healthy affirmations; worry is usually expressed in words through negative affirmations like “I know things will not work out like the last time”. However, why not develop positive affirmations “ I know things will work out for my good”, “I am blessed” “I will achieve success”, ”I am wonderfully and beautifully created” as the bible says in proverbs “ As Man thinks in his heart so is he”

Stop the Worry culture that is holding you back today

The Side of YOU, not even You knew existed!

" It doesn't matter where you are born, it could be in a Manger. But in God's mind, it is a setup for Christmas and not for you to become a Donkey" You are destined for Greatness

YOU are the kind that turns water into wine, the side that turns a moment of sorrow into springboards for greater exploits. The Kind that creates a table in the presence of thine enemies. The you that the Devil left with Marks of Triumph. The YOU who is wonderfully and beautifully made beyond anyone's wildest dreams. The YOU who can never be duplicated. The one with the Potential to do far above and beyond the imagination of what anyone in this life can fathom. The YOU who is God's best-kept secret until now. The You under whom life awaits instructions to carry out your wishes, the YOU with the tongue of authority that whatever you can declare in this life will come to pass

You are the one who was created self-contained that you don't even need an electric charger in order to live. You are the kind that is able to stand on two legs firmly without a third pillar to keep your posture.

MAN, WOMAN, the divine is waiting for your action to turn this world into a better place for all humanity.

Let no one cheat you that they know the details about your great because the Creator was so wise and He hid your bright future inside of YOU. And it is only you who can bring it out. Simple as that.

Be inspired today

If you can’t Convince them, Confuse them

 A letter to my grandchildren: African Ancestors did nothing wrong!

Africans for some time have been labeled backward people even after getting the education they prescribed for them. The prescribed education in fact only created employees and never employers. Therefore, we were trained to take care of other people’s possession and never to own anything. The Religion they brought to us managed to convince us that our African Ancestors committed high treason before the face of God and we are paying the price of their supposed sins hence, we are supposed to repent for those sins and iniquities on their behalf in order to see the perceived change and enjoy the prosperity that is idolized in certain parts of the world. Every week the African has continued to repent of these ancestral inequities with no sign of change in sight, the poor are still poor. Religion has even designed the picture of the devil with our black skin color while all the angels in the supposed presence of God are all white in color. Talk about killing the self-esteem of people at a deeper level with such an illustration. We walk as broken people under sin and have been hypnotized to the extent that we have even rejected our own traditional names and norms in preference for the ones recommended by our spiritual educators including their cultural norms hoping that will change our circumstances and in the process make the African look distinguished. But we are forgetting one truth that a Rose flower under any other name will still smell a rose flower.

If our African ancestors were as backward and evil as we have been made to believe, then let’s consider the facts. How did my ancestors manage to move from wherever they came from whether it is in the mountains of Cameroon in West Africa without shoes or clothes, braving the most hostile African jungles, unpredictable climatic conditions, crossing some of the most turbulent rivers, fighting off wild animals, providing child and maternal health services until they were able to settle in the various places that the white missionaries found them. If you ask me, our ancestors were true heroes and someone deliberately did not want the Africans to view their past in that positive light. Hence, make people be ashamed of their history

Well, let’s ask the question, who led our ancestors through their journeys and whose wisdom did they use to enable them to brave the difficult great treks that they undertook to the point where the African we see today was born and is alive fully formed. Is it the devil? Consider for a moment if the African migration and spiritual journey were well recorded in the same manner the Jewish history has been recorded in the Torah, wouldn’t we see the hand of a divine God somewhere in there? The fear-based religion that we have been exposed to, has truly made zombies out of some of our people today. One thing is true, Nobody can pray themselves into prosperity otherwise the Africans would have been the richest people on the face of the earth because they are true prayer warriors trying to kill the devil who is the supposed author of poverty. Except I don’t really know who gave Africans the idea that the devil is hiding in the mountains.

We have been asking our religious teachers to show us how to get to the abundance that God promised in various religious texts and the answer we normally get is so familiar, do not aspire for these worldly treasures as your true treasure awaits you in heaven. Wow! Can somebody remind them that nobody gets out of life alive! To get to heaven one has to die and be buried hallelujah.

The solutions to Africa’s economic problem actually lie in the problems themselves except that we have been trained always to look elsewhere first like an academic text book written in 1950! God in his divine wisdom prepacked solutions in the problems themselves like the maize crop is in the maize seed itself. For example, if we consider Africa’s agriculture problems, is the African arable land located only in Europe, Asia or America? Are the people who are supposed to farm the land only in Europe, Asia, or America? Many times the solutions are just as simple as that. But Africans are too educated and always believe it’s complicated to solve agricultural problems. Who knows maybe that’s the reason Jesus Christ did not attend any Earthly University so that he can uncomplicated life as we know it. Seriously can we for a moment unlearn things and get back to the basics.

Well at least I can finally declare as the Mexican proverb says “They tried to burry us, but they didn’t know we were seeds” Africa will wake up one day and take its destiny in its own hands and the liar will be exposed

When Yesterday is Gone

“Thank the past for all the lessons it taught you; anticipate the future for all the blessings it has in store for you.” ~ Matshona Dhliwayo

What is Yesterday doing in your present moment? What is the value of bringing up the horrors of Yesterday in your now moment? You may have made terrible mistakes yesterday or you could have been misunderstood and treated unfairly. The question of life you would consider is that are you sure you can travel back in time and undo what happened yesterday like one would do on a Computer? Unfortunately, it is an exercise in futility to try that impossible adventure. Many times the people who get stuck in the pains of yesterday look for sympathy from those around them. and they are not ready to move to the next adventure of life. Maybe they are scared of the changes that tomorrow or today require them to make to fit in. 

Yesterday is like torn pieces of paper that have been thrown into the air and have been dispersed by the fast blowing wind in different directions and cannot be regathered and pieced together again and its done. Therefore, why would someone waste time trying to cry over milk that has already been spilled? Look back and ask yourself the questions of life like "What is the lesson that was hidden in yesterday?" "What is the treasure that could have been wrapped up in yesterday?" You will discover that the greatest treasure in yesterday is that you are here alive today. The almighty God has hidden all your promises and blessings in time. Every minute ahead of you holds something of value to your future. Therefore, don't waste valuable energy getting stuck in the past. 

Charles E Hudson could not have been more clearer when he said “Don't let the pain from yesterday ruin the new day that's ahead of you.” However, it is Mehmet Murat ildan, who once said “If your yesterday was much better than your today, then today you will most probably walk around in your yesterday!” in essence we should not define today by yesterday's standards which may be outdated today otherwise we will never grow beyond yesterday's limits. Remember the Fax machines were relevant yesterday but today we have email. Yesterday we had Kodak photo cameras that needed a darkroom to develop images to get a photo, but today we have digital cameras and digital printers to achieve the same thing. Like one wise guy once said "Expectation is the Pillar of Life" Our today should always be filled with higher expectations than yesterday. Hope for tomorrow should always be the last thing we should ever lose no matter what we go through in life

Choose to live in the moment and enjoy life as it has been given to you by God. Life is what it is and you make it what you want it to be. Above all forgive everyone who has hurt you in the past. You have no business carrying the burden of unforgiveness instead of spending quality time creating your future. You are a creator and nothing else 

When Life hits you with a Low Blow

 "If You Accept the fragrance of a Rose, You must accept the thorns that it bears" ~ Isaac Hayes

Bret Michaels once said "My life is part humour, part roses and part Thorns. There comes a time in life when one goes through thorns of Life. A time when even those you think are close to you seems so far away when your cry is not loud enough for anyone to hear you. A time when one even thinks God has gone quiet on you. When it's daytime but you wish it was in the night when time simply stops and seems to take an eternity while your mind freezes. You can't even turn to the left or to the right with no place to lay your head in peace.

Is there a way out? Yes! Ask yourself the question, If it's not me then who? The thorns of life were divinely designed to keep you in motion. No one sits on thorns and never rises up to escape the pain of thorns. God never designed a perfect path for you lest you fail to grow in wisdom but He ensured that the devil was standing at every corner so that you don't ever stop moving towards your destiny. Therefore, make friends with the thorns of life and you will thank God. Every encounter with evil is replete with a valuable lesson to move you to the next best version of yourself for the prepared higher level. Remember the day when even the people you hope to encourage you, all of a sudden just develop amnesia and cant even remember that you exist.

When evil shows up like it has come to derail your journey, Thank God because its the signal you have been waiting for that the day of your rising is just on the horizon. Therefore, just make friends with the thorns you encounter in your journal. Life is not a mystery just flow with it with your eyes set on the goal.